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BULLY BULLY!!!! BULLY BULLY!! BULLY BULLY!!

bullying in schools from teachers and students should not be ignored.

AS A CONCERNED PARENT IN THE AREA I FEEL BULLYING IS IGNORED, DOWN PLAYED TO PERCEPTION, AND IS HARMFUL TO A CHILD OR AN ADULT IF THIS IS NOT REPORTED....

Researchers show many teachers have bully children.  Children are taught that their school teacher is a role model, needed,  and if being bullied by their teacher  this makes them afraid to tell you or anybody the teacher mad them sad.  They are sadistic and petty, gaining self-esteem through the humiliation of others.  Researchers also show that children play the roll of a roll mode of their teacher/parent/ mentor, etc., more so than listening....Monkey See Monkey Do....

Researchers and psychologist recently posted facts on teacher bullys...

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A teacher bully will shame a child in front of classmates. This does not make a child tough and resillant...it makes them sad, unworthy, and embarrassed.

(researchers show this is irreversable damage, distrust, and if able do not let anybody manipulate your child to accept this behavior). Researchers express to parents,  teach your child that he/she does not "own" the low-self esteem of the bully)

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A teacher bully will call on a child to answer an impossible question...taunting with pressure under time, etc. knowing it is impoosible to answer....

(do not get manipulated by the bully that this is for a second chance for credit)

A teacher bully will make an example of a child, comparing him/or her to a another student.

(researchers show sharing work, ideas, is great) but, not to made into an example of wrong doing.

A bully teacher will shame her student helper of making a mistake.

A bully teacher will humiliate some students and tell the other students to ignore, mind your business.

Example:a teacher bully lock two kids out of class.  Then tell the other students to ignore them. This will raise concern to your child if the bully would ever do that tho them.

Reporting bullying now can deliver a more safe invorment for our children to communicate, make better choices, and have fun while learning. IGORING IT WILL CAUSE LONG TERM PROBLEMS.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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